The Ultimate Guide to Get Her Ring Size Discreetly

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Secret Engagement Ring Mission: The Ultimate Guide to Get Her Ring Size Discreetly


Hallelujah! You’ve found the love of your life and you’re ready to pop the question. But before you get down on one knee, there’s a crucial step: finding the perfect ring size, without her or him knowing and ruining the surprise.

This ultimate guide equips you with tips and tactics we noted from our clients over the years. After hearing many methods we narrowed down the best and most successful options here. Get ready to measure your girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s ring size for a perfect proposal. We’ll explore sneaky methods, helpful tools, and clever tricks to ensure the ring fits their finger like a dream (and saying “YES” with a big smile!).


Operation Ring Size: Discreet Tactics


The Diversion

Buy her/him an inexpensive none engagement ring, in a very large or very small incorrect ring size. This way, you will be required to exchange or resize the ring to the correct ring size, which in the process you can find out what their correct ring size is.


Find a ring they wear (aim for the engagement ring finger) and secretly measure the ring on your finger, then mark with a pen the two edges of where the ring stops on your finger. Then measure this size by using a set of ring sizers or going to a local shop.

Borrow a Ring

Do any of their friends or family members wear rings she or he admires and wears? With their permission, borrow the ring for a day and get it measured at a local shop. Or use the above technique to mark it on your finger.

Become a Ring Detective

Pay attention to the rings she already wears. Are there specific rings she favors on certain fingers? This might give you a clue about her ring size and style.

The Inside Man

Does your partner have a friend who just got engaged or whose jewelry they adore? Contact that friend, and ask them to meet your partner alone and ask them to casually talk to your partner about jewelry, for example to show them a new piece of jewelry they bought. This way, you can get some inside information and you might even learn what styles, carat size and cut catch your partner’s eye. Who knows, you might even get some insider tips on their dream ring design.


Tip for the Perfect Size

Be Prepared for Variations: Rings come in quarter and half sizes as well. If you’re unsure between sizes, opt for the larger option for a more comfortable fit.

Remember, the ultimate goal is to find the perfect ring that symbolizes your love and commitment. With a little planning, these secret sizing strategies will ensure a smooth proposal and a resounding “YES”!

Now, go forth, secret agent of love! With these tips in your arsenal, you’re well on your way to a successful engagement ring mission.


If you have any tips and ideas, feel free to let us know.

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